Meet you, the first two mothers in the second season of education to empower love, how they accompany their children on the road to growth in a heartwarming sharing

 

The second season of "Agreed, Let's Dive into Education" salon series hosted by Langsheng Education has officially launched. This session, themed "How Parents Can Support Their Children's Growth and Success", features guest speakers Angela (daughter attending Concord College, one of the UK's top three institutions) and Amy (daughter graduating from Columbia University with a Computer Science degree and an Economics minor). The two mothers candidly shared their parenting journeys and practical insights on parental roles, delivering actionable wisdom that left attendees feeling inspired and enriched.

 

 

Sharing session

 

 

The original intention of parents is to accompany their children's physical and mental growth

——Angela's mom

(The following is a first-person narrative)

 

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How can parents participate in planning when choosing the right school for their children?

It is important to remember that when choosing a school, we can be the child's information provider, providing information and channels for the child, and can appropriately make decision support or emotional care, but the final decision must be made by the child himself.

 

When Angela expressed her desire to study abroad, we decided to first arrange a hands-on experience at Concord College in the UK. This approach allowed her to immerse herself in international academic life. We believed her strong motivation would prepare her for future challenges, while her mental maturity demonstrated self-management skills and practical living abilities. Moreover, the school she aspired to attend aligned with our family's educational criteria in multiple aspects.

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How can parents maintain a close parent-child relationship while their children are studying abroad?

My daughter went to the UK to study in 2019, but returned home last year due to the epidemic. It was exactly one year of studying abroad and one year of taking online courses at home. The change of location and teaching method actually posed a challenge to the communication between parents and children, and the coping methods were also different.

 

While abroad:

50. When you communicate with your child, listen to what he says first. Don't rush to speak in front of your child (Angela's warm tip: Don't ask him what he learned today or how he did on the test at the beginning!)
50. Talk to your child about something easy (such as food sharing, your child's daily routine or family fun) to motivate your child to talk to you
50. Even if they are thousands of miles apart, they can properly express their love and longing for their children, so that the children can understand that their parents are always the strongest support behind them.

 

During the domestic period:

When my daughter first started online classes after returning from abroad, she struggled with jet lag and disrupted sleep patterns for quite some time. To help her adjust, I arranged regular outdoor activities that not only strengthened her body but also released dopamine, easing her stress. We occasionally went on outings or visited exhibitions together. Here, I'd like to share three key principles I've distilled: "More support, less lecturing; more observation, less interference; more encouragement, less criticism." Ultimately, we must prioritize our children's physical and mental well-being for their happy growth.

 

Angela's secret to being close to her child

Be good at using emojis! It is recommended that parents add more interesting and fun emojis. When communicating with children, sending an appropriate and cute emoji will instantly close the distance with children and make communication smooth.

 

 

Companionship is the longest love letter, if I had to choose again, I would do it

——Amy mom

(The following is a first-person narrative)

As Angela's mother mentioned earlier, parents should respect their children's aspirations. When Amy attended a government-run middle school, her participation in the school-organized study exchange program between Germany and the United States sparked her desire to study abroad. As a mother, I chose to accompany her to the U.S. for academic support.

 

In the days that followed, through my daughter's little growth, I saw the child's efforts and progress constantly, and I realized that we were growing together.

 

First of all, for myself, the initial challenge was huge, whether it was the language challenge or the daily life challenge. Based on my natural optimistic and fearless personality, although I faced different challenges every day, I dealt with them calmly and overcame the difficulties.

 

At every parent-teacher conference, Amy always acts as my "translator", explaining the proceedings to me. Whether it's the teachers' enthusiasm, my adventurous spirit, or perhaps the invisible strength I draw from my daughter, I've become more proactive and engaged in school activities. Through this process, my daughter has come to appreciate her mother's unwavering love and steadfast support.

 

When Amy first enrolled at Peddie School (a prestigious private institution in the United States), language was her biggest challenge. Undaunted by difficulties, she proactively sought guidance from teachers. With their support and through persistent effort, Amy ultimately achieved outstanding academic results. This success serves as a powerful example I share with all international students: face challenges head-on and find solutions.

 

My daughter was passionate about sports and joined the school hockey team after moving to America, where she played for four years until becoming captain. As her mother, I never missed a single game, always cheering her on from the stands! I still remember one time after her game when the coach specifically asked her, "Please tell your mom that you're the best—you're a true athlete!" The coach's affirmation and my daughter's fighting spirit deeply moved me, making me feel that all the hard work and sacrifices were truly worthwhile.

 

During the college application season, while many of Amy's classmates had already been accepted into Ivy League schools, she faced the pressure of admissions by posting on social media: "Stay true to your dreams, everyone keep pushing forward!" Her words tugged at my heartstrings yet deeply moved me. I thought to myself: My daughter has truly grown up – her inner strength and determination are so remarkable. It was in that moment that I realized university admission no longer mattered; what truly counted was the journey itself. Through this process, Amy had become a mentally and physically healthy, exceptionally outstanding young woman. Ultimately, through relentless effort, she achieved her dream of being admitted to Columbia University, continuing her studies at this prestigious institution.

 

Amy's mom's book sharing

Amy's mother also specially recommended a book that her daughter likes very much for everyone. I hope you can read it and be inspired by it.

 

 

 

 

The Q&A session that followed was particularly lively, with participants sharing their thoughts freely. The two guest mothers enthusiastically addressed various questions ranging from communication strategies with children to managing personal emotions. Their detailed and sincere responses provided valuable insights, leaving everyone inspired and enriched. Even after the sharing session concluded, the audience remained immersed in the joyful atmosphere. Reflecting on the two mothers' insightful presentations, the discussion left a lasting impression that lingered in the air.

 

Group photo